Marriage is a sacrament and means the selecting of a companion for life to stand by in weal or woe. Besides it is in accordance with the reaction of past karma when the dear ones are blended together in the Sacred Bonds of matrimony for the liquidation of their mutual give and take.
As regards your marriage, you may please note that marriage means taking up a companion in life on earthly sojourn for weal or woe and both of the couple should reach God. It is no harm to Spirituality if conducted according to the scriptures. The very many difficulties encountered by you should be sorted out carefully and placed in order of priority. You can forget all about the past and work in the living present by careful planning and execution. Every day brings in ample chances for success and Spiritual Progress. If you will make the best use of present time, future will take its own care. My Love and blessings are always with you both.